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My Personal Code of Ethics (2023)

January 24, 2023

Preamble Providing time is an occupation that is greatly misunderstood and generally looked down upon by most of society.  One who undertakes this as a primary profession or as an adjunct to another profession realises that they expose the most personal of spaces to the client in exchange for financial or practical remuneration.   This close interaction requires a very high level of trust be established between the provider and the client, and I feel it is critical that my clients understand that they are dealing with someone who adheres to a strong code of ethics.  

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Seeing Escorts WITHOUT Getting Caught

November 3, 2021

This is an update to a 2010 article I wrote called “How do I avoid becoming the next Tiger Woods?” aimed at helping clients improve their OPSEC in light of the Tiger Woods cheating ‘scandal’. A lot has changed since then so a lot has been updated and added to help you avoid getting caught by whoever it is you don’t want to be caught by. No judgement from me, I also value my privacy highly. At the bottom of this piece, you’ll also find a lovely infographic as well as booking advice from Isobel Andrews. Once you know how to best protect yourself, it’s time to move onto the fun part: Seeing providers! Using the advice in Isobel’s article, you will ensure that you book your date like a perfect gentleman.

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A manual that says code of ethics with the red Mariposa logo

My Personal Code of Ethics

August 23, 2021

Preamble Providing time is an occupation that is greatly misunderstood and generally looked down upon by society.  One who undertakes this as a primary profession or as an adjunct to another profession realises that s/he exposes the most personal of space to the client in exchange for financial or practical remuneration.   This close interaction requires a very high level of trust be established between the provider and the client, and I feel it is critical that the client understand that s/he knows that s/he is dealing with someone who adheres to a strong code of ethics.

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